Support that sees the whole of you—power, identity, intimacy, and all the layers in between.
Maybe you’ve worked with therapists who:
Spent too much time “just listening” and not offering their wisdom
Offered surface-level skills that ignored the patterns of your specific relationship
Needed you to explain your entire identity before you could even begin
This work is different.
My approach is direct, affirming, and rooted in liberatory psychology. Together we look at the internal systems, stories, and survival patterns shaping your relationship—without pathologizing who you are.
I integrate evidence-based approaches with identity-centered care:
| Modality | Focus |
|---|---|
| Relational Life Therapy (RLT) | Power, accountability, and real-time change |
| Internal Family Systems (IFS) | Parts work, inner dialogue, and emotional healing |
| Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) | Attachment, vulnerability, and bonding |
| PACT (Psychobiological Approach) | Neuroscience of reactivity and secure functioning |
| Developmental Model | Growing beyond codependence into differentiation |
High-Achieving Couples
Professional success often comes at the cost of emotional connection. I help partners separate their professional roles from their personal relationships and rebuild intimacy with directness and compassion.
Neurodivergent + Trauma-Informed Relating
This isn’t about “fixing.” It’s about translating communication styles, co-regulating, and building resilience together.
Polyamory & Non-Monogamy
Learn to navigate agreements, jealousy, stigma, and balance in complex partnerships from an expert in sexuality studies and ethical non-monogamy (i.e. without feeling shamed).
Queer, Kink & Identity-Expansive
You are not “too much”—you’re under-considered. We address gender affirmation, erotic shame release, kink negotiation, and reclaiming sexual authenticity.
Weekly or Biweekly Therapy
For couples and evolving partnerships wanting consistent growth.
Relationship Intensives
Custom deep-dive sessions (3–6 hours), with follow-up coaching and a tailored relationship roadmap. Perfect for pre-marital prep, polyamory transitions, intimacy repair, or breakthrough clarity.
Discernment Counseling
Sessions focused on whether a couple should stay committed or know it’s time to end the relationship (and how to do so with the little personal damage and conflict.)
Ongoing Relationship Coaching
Weekly or biweekly sessions focused on intimacy enhancement, conflict transformation, and long-term relational growth.
“You don’t need to figure everything out in advance. Just bring curiosity and courage.”
Intensives can be a great option for folks who are at a point of readiness to learn and implement new skills, and who want to do so within a specific timeframe. They are a great and efficient way for motivated and busy people to dig in, learn about themselves and partner(s), and implement new skills within a short period of time. For relationship coaching, this means that everyone involved is willing and available (literally and mentally/emotionally) to show up and commit to the process.
Weekly or biweekly sessions focused on long-term transformation.
Areas of Focus:
Communication rewiring & rupture repair
Intimacy enhancement (emotional + sexual)
Navigating parenting or cohabitation tension
Agreements, boundaries & co-care strategies
Identity exploration & intersectional relating
Whether you’re rebuilding after rupture or simply craving deeper connection — this is your space to grow together, not apart.
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